How to respond when your ex is trying to start a fight?

Ariel Peres, Esq. | 10-Feb-2024

Did your ex just text or email you something nasty? This is very common and they are likely trying to instigate or start a fight...

Did your ex just text or email you something nasty? This is very common and they are likely trying to instigate or start a fight. Here's a quick read on a few steps to deal with this situation in a mature and calm manner.


Remember, anything you text back might be shown to a judge! You should be ok showing anything you communicate to your ex to a judge.


The first thing to do when you see the message is to not even look at it. Just set it aside and do NOT respond right away. Have a cool off period where you don't think about this nastiness.


Next, draft up a response that you would be ok showing a judge. Show this to a few level-headed close friends and your attorney, if applicable. After getting approval and input from these individuals, respond and document your response.


Do not do anything that you might regret. Any immature response will only benefit your ex. The best response is coolness and presence of mind in all circumstances.

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